The School for Good Mothers

The School for Good Mothers

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  • Author:Jessamine Chan
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Summary

In this taut and explosive debut novel, one lapse in judgement lands a young mother in a government reform program where custody of her child hangs in the balance。

Frida Liu is struggling。 She doesn’t have a career worthy of her Chinese immigrant parents’ sacrifices。 She can’t persuade her husband, Gust, to give up his wellness-obsessed younger mistress。 Only with Harriet, their cherubic daughter, does Frida finally attain the perfection expected of her。 Harriet may be all she has, but she is just enough。

Until Frida has a very bad day。

The state has its eyes on mothers like Frida。 The ones who check their phones, letting their children get injured on the playground; who let their children walk home alone。 Because of one moment of poor judgment, a host of government officials will now determine if Frida is a candidate for a Big Brother-like institution that measures the success or failure of a mother’s devotion。

Faced with the possibility of losing Harriet, Frida must prove that a bad mother can be redeemed。 That she can learn to be good。

A searing page-turner that is also a transgressive novel of ideas about the perils of “perfect” upper-middle class parenting; the violence enacted upon women by both the state and, at times, one another; the systems that separate families; and the boundlessness of love, The School for Good Mothers introduces, in Frida, an everywoman for the ages。 Using dark wit to explore the pains and joys of the deepest ties that bind us, Chan has written a modern literary classic。

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Reviews

Emerald Dodge

A DNR for me。 I think Chan fumbled with the "lapse in judgment" Frida made--I didn't have much sympathy for her, despite being a mother of two small children myself。 I think it would've been a much better criticism of modern parenting attitudes if one of Frida's neighbors had seen Frida pop out to get coffee and immediately called CPS, instead of having Frida leave Harriet alone for 2。5 hours, which is abominable。 I struggled to see Frida as the victim I think we were expected to see her as, and A DNR for me。 I think Chan fumbled with the "lapse in judgment" Frida made--I didn't have much sympathy for her, despite being a mother of two small children myself。 I think it would've been a much better criticism of modern parenting attitudes if one of Frida's neighbors had seen Frida pop out to get coffee and immediately called CPS, instead of having Frida leave Harriet alone for 2。5 hours, which is abominable。 I struggled to see Frida as the victim I think we were expected to see her as, and couldn't get as emotionally invested in the book as I wanted。 。。。more

Sarah

I struggled with this one。 A female dystopia that reminds me of The Handmaid's Tale, except there seems to be no real rules about who is punished。 Frieda, after having "one bad day" with her toddler Harriet, is reported to Child Protective Services by a neighbor and is sentenced to a year in basically a prison/rehab for bad mothers。 I understand the concerns the author was trying to float out there--is there really such a thing as a perfect mother, why are women of color treated more poorly than I struggled with this one。 A female dystopia that reminds me of The Handmaid's Tale, except there seems to be no real rules about who is punished。 Frieda, after having "one bad day" with her toddler Harriet, is reported to Child Protective Services by a neighbor and is sentenced to a year in basically a prison/rehab for bad mothers。 I understand the concerns the author was trying to float out there--is there really such a thing as a perfect mother, why are women of color treated more poorly than white women, why are fathers not judged nearly as harshly as mothers for their parenting skills? Ultimately for me though, this book was way too over the top。 Seems like a time that we would be present in--(exersaucers), but then no explanation of how there came to be a movement to such a militant/ technologically advanced society for punishing mothers。 And it seems as though being punished as a "bad mother" is left totally up to circumstance。 A good idea for a story, but I thought there were too many inconsistencies as the book progressed。 。。。more

Stephanie

This book left me with my mouth wide open。 I can't。 Left me so mad at this made-up world。 I wanted to throw this book a few times then I realized it was my kindle and it wouldn't survive the throw。 The school was too extreme。 It was set up for failure。 It was a prison, not a school。 Of course, the fathers had it way easier than the mothers。 Not surprising in the least I had to give it 5 stars。 It kept me turning the pages。 I wanted more and was sad every time I had to put it down。 I needed to kn This book left me with my mouth wide open。 I can't。 Left me so mad at this made-up world。 I wanted to throw this book a few times then I realized it was my kindle and it wouldn't survive the throw。 The school was too extreme。 It was set up for failure。 It was a prison, not a school。 Of course, the fathers had it way easier than the mothers。 Not surprising in the least I had to give it 5 stars。 It kept me turning the pages。 I wanted more and was sad every time I had to put it down。 I needed to know what would happen next to Frida, to the rest of the mothers。 I feel like this could ve explored more。 A sequel would be great。 Maybe the robots rebelling。 Emmanuel leading the rebellion。 Just an idea lol。 。。。more

Bethany

I think the premise of this books is very important, but it was told ion kind of a plodding way (maybe that was intentional?) that didn't do it any favors。 I think the premise of this books is very important, but it was told ion kind of a plodding way (maybe that was intentional?) that didn't do it any favors。 。。。more

Joyce Schiff

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 Don't know how to rate this book。。frightening to think that society could ever come to the dystopian concepts 。。。。to be a good mother you should not have feelings for anything or anyone but the child。。motherhood should be programmed。。。。。 Had to finish it fast。。。。。。。Distressing end。。。。 Don't know how to rate this book。。frightening to think that society could ever come to the dystopian concepts 。。。。to be a good mother you should not have feelings for anything or anyone but the child。。motherhood should be programmed。。。。。 Had to finish it fast。。。。。。。Distressing end。。。。 。。。more

Linda McCutcheon

A satire about the cult of motherhood" A description from the author but I would describe The School For Good Mothers by Jessamine Chan more of a horror story about the cult of motherhood。I needed time to process this debut novel by the very impressive writer。 I both listened and read this story which helped me in understanding its not always sympathetic protagonist。Frida Liu is a Chinese American at a point of mental crisis in her life。 An only child from hard working immigrant parents she marr A satire about the cult of motherhood" A description from the author but I would describe The School For Good Mothers by Jessamine Chan more of a horror story about the cult of motherhood。I needed time to process this debut novel by the very impressive writer。 I both listened and read this story which helped me in understanding its not always sympathetic protagonist。Frida Liu is a Chinese American at a point of mental crisis in her life。 An only child from hard working immigrant parents she married and had her only daughter, Harriet, in her late 30s。 Her white all American husband Gust has left her for the social media savvy much younger wealthy all American Susanna。 Frida is ashamed that on her days with Harriet she is overwhelmed from lack of sleep, no help, job pressures and obvious postpartum depression。 She makes a decision when she is having a "horrible day" that costs her to lose her parental rights。To over compensate for failures in child protective services the government has instituted a year long live in school (prison) to correct the wrong behaviors of not "perfect" mothers。 Taking a sci fi turn from West World the mothers are put in very surreal situations and evaluated by "Aunt Lydia" counselors (reference Handmaid's Tale) to get their kids back。Narrator Catherine Ho was perfection as an overwrought scared confused Frida。 She also helped me understand better some of Frida's later bad decisions just by the inflections of her voice。Spending a year at this school with Frida made me very angry。 I think mostly because as ridiculous as the process seemed I could see it happening for real。 That is what makes it a horror story for me。 Frida was judged without details, prosecuted without growth and condemned without compassion。 I received a free copy of this book/audiobook from the publishers via #netgalley for a fair and honest review。 All opinions are my own。 。。。more

Devon

It’s definitely a quick read (or listen, in my case) but I found the villains so one-note and some of the plot points so over the top that it often veered into cartoonish。 Also, I know we’re supposed to have sympathy for Frida, but what she did to Harriet is inexcusable and I found her co-parents’ unwavering support of her despite everything unrealistic。

Cheryl

This book reminded my of A Clockwork Orange in a weird way

Suzette Firehammer

I found this book truly heartbreaking and upsetting。 If you’re looking for a feel-good book this is not it。 I’m not sure what the point of the story was but I didn’t get anything positive out of it。

Nikki

I don't even know why I finished this book。 I should have quit on it but I kept hoping it would get better。 It started off pretty good but then was just the same thing over and over again, and it completely unrealistic, even for a dystopian world。 I do not recommend!! I don't even know why I finished this book。 I should have quit on it but I kept hoping it would get better。 It started off pretty good but then was just the same thing over and over again, and it completely unrealistic, even for a dystopian world。 I do not recommend!! 。。。more

Erin Glover

This novel had an Orwellian-type feel to it。 It's about what could happen to mothers in the future if they do not conform to government-decided mandates on how to raise children。 It was quite harrowing。 But single mother Frida really did do a bad thing and left her toddler daughter in an exercise saucer while she took off for two hours to get coffee and check her emails at the office。 This is after days of no sleep due to her daughter Harriet's crazy schedule。 A concerned neighbor heard Harriet This novel had an Orwellian-type feel to it。 It's about what could happen to mothers in the future if they do not conform to government-decided mandates on how to raise children。 It was quite harrowing。 But single mother Frida really did do a bad thing and left her toddler daughter in an exercise saucer while she took off for two hours to get coffee and check her emails at the office。 This is after days of no sleep due to her daughter Harriet's crazy schedule。 A concerned neighbor heard Harriet wailing and called social services。 The story is about the hoops Frida must jump through in order to get her daughter back after she is taken from her and placed with her ex-husband and his new wife。 Every mother willl relate to Frida's desire to run off before she goes crazy。 It's harder to justify leaving the child alone。 But the state's new system for re-education of bad mothers is like a jail sentence, with no guarantee that Frida will regain her parental rights after her bad mothering。 The state's training for "bad mothers" is grueling and unjust。 But it's the only way for Frida to get her child back。Chan keeps the tension high never letting us know until the end whether Frida will regain rights to Harriet。 In the meantime, Frida walks through a maze of outlandish requirements for a year--the only way to get Harriet back。 In a sort of sci-fi twist, Frida must care for a robot with characteristics of a child。 The results are chilling。I loved and hated this book。 Too many judge mothers and this novel took that judgment to an almost satirical level。 This novel capitalized on the nearly universal guilt mothers have while raising their children。 。。。more

Enia

I just finished this yesterday and happened to hear the interview with Jessamine Chan just now。 It was very helpful。 I really liked hearing her say that she wanted the ending to be " a gift to the reader。" It was。 I had so many different feelings reading this book。 If I were asked to sum it up, I would have to say simply this: the love that a mother has for her child is a love unlike any other, and this relationship needs to be honored and protected。 Anyone who supports a mother in any way poss I just finished this yesterday and happened to hear the interview with Jessamine Chan just now。 It was very helpful。 I really liked hearing her say that she wanted the ending to be " a gift to the reader。" It was。 I had so many different feelings reading this book。 If I were asked to sum it up, I would have to say simply this: the love that a mother has for her child is a love unlike any other, and this relationship needs to be honored and protected。 Anyone who supports a mother in any way possible is a hero。 Congratulations on this wonderful debut! 。。。more

Penelope

Thank you to Goodreads for an advanced readers’ copy of this book。 I think it would make an excellent movie。 However, as a book, I found it less successful。 The first part was interesting, but then it turned into a massive chore for me to plow through。 Although it wasn’t many pages, the descriptions seemed to go on and on and on。 But the basic idea was both interesting and terrifying。

lu :]

this got me thinking a lot。 hopefully in time i will aquire the range of expressfulness to comment the vastity of my thoughts

Nicole Reyes

⭐️⭐️⭐️💫

Lani

I had high hopes for this book and was excited to read it but in the end was just really disappointed。

Holly Fairall (birdbrainbooks)

4。5 - This book is excellent in both concept and execution。 I love books that explore big themes like motherhood by pushing familiar problems to the extreme。 In this case, demonstrating society’s lack of support for mothers by forcing those who have made mistakes into a cruel rehabilitation program。 There is an unexpected slightly sci-fi element which I absolutely loved, but it all felt extremely real to life (uncomfortably real to life, in fact)。 It gave me The Push meets Girl, Interrupted meet 4。5 - This book is excellent in both concept and execution。 I love books that explore big themes like motherhood by pushing familiar problems to the extreme。 In this case, demonstrating society’s lack of support for mothers by forcing those who have made mistakes into a cruel rehabilitation program。 There is an unexpected slightly sci-fi element which I absolutely loved, but it all felt extremely real to life (uncomfortably real to life, in fact)。 It gave me The Push meets Girl, Interrupted meets Klara and the Sun (I thought this book did a much better job of exploring certain themes than Klara and the Sun, for what it’s worth)。 This book is dark and bleak。 I highly recommend it and hope to see it garner attention this year。 。。。more

Abigail Adjei-Brenyah

This book is about Frida Lu, a mother of a toddler 。After unfortunate day of poor parenting the state sentences her to one year school to become a better mom。 I was really excited to read this book and had high hopes going in。The book started off very interesting and then it just died down after。 The book became really slow and repetitive and I literally had push myself to finish the book。

Emma

This book was good but it was way too complicated to rate properly。 Saw another review that said the writing was really good but it wasn’t enjoyable。 That’s exactly how I felt。 The main thing that got me through this was I wanted to know how it ended。 The ending was by far the best part。 I didn’t love it but it was definitely an interesting read。 The concept was really good and the writing was impressive。 It was a bit slow at times and although it was dystopian I could see it happening very fast This book was good but it was way too complicated to rate properly。 Saw another review that said the writing was really good but it wasn’t enjoyable。 That’s exactly how I felt。 The main thing that got me through this was I wanted to know how it ended。 The ending was by far the best part。 I didn’t love it but it was definitely an interesting read。 The concept was really good and the writing was impressive。 It was a bit slow at times and although it was dystopian I could see it happening very fast。 。。。more

B Betancourt

Not my cup of tea, I didn't enjoy (nor agreed with) the main character, Frida, at all。 In every chapter, the narrative stressed me out。 I even had to put the book down so many times but still tried to continue out of curiosity。 Not my cup of tea, I didn't enjoy (nor agreed with) the main character, Frida, at all。 In every chapter, the narrative stressed me out。 I even had to put the book down so many times but still tried to continue out of curiosity。 。。。more

Diana

An engaging debut novel。 I have been trying to read more books by Asian / Asian American authors, and the plot of this one was very intriguing。 The psychological torture of losing a child to the system and trying to earn back the right to be a mother through the dystopian School for Good Mothers was an engrossing page-turner。

Joy Benavides

Gahh! This was horrifying。 Definitely was a criticism on motherhood today。 Or rather criticizes the expectations put on mothers in today’s world。 It’s impossible to please everyone。 Especially with social media! Moms are out under scrutiny every day。 With the help of social media, it’s easy to spew opinions around。 In this novel, there is no such thing as winning。 There’s a huge sense of doom throughout the whole book and it’s exhausting to read, but it made me think。 I just wanna give them all Gahh! This was horrifying。 Definitely was a criticism on motherhood today。 Or rather criticizes the expectations put on mothers in today’s world。 It’s impossible to please everyone。 Especially with social media! Moms are out under scrutiny every day。 With the help of social media, it’s easy to spew opinions around。 In this novel, there is no such thing as winning。 There’s a huge sense of doom throughout the whole book and it’s exhausting to read, but it made me think。 I just wanna give them all a hug。 “Fix the home, and fix society” pg 82 。。。more

Selene

Disturbing and unhinged, yet astutely looks at the role of the state in motherhood and cultural norms about what makes a “good mother”。 It feels like a motherhood episode of Black Mirror。

Cynthia Lyman

I got so worked up while reading this book, angry at he treatment of the Mom going through Mom Reform School, until the very end。 Hopefully the Mom and Harriet get away to a happy place。

Alana Ivey

Ohhhhhhyyy boy。 Where do I start with this wild ride? Y’all。 Points for creativity and dystopia right off the bat。Listen, this is not a happy read, and can be painful at times。 I can only imagine how much more difficult if you have children。 However, I will think about this book for the rest of my life。 I’m glad to have read it。 … I just never want to read it again。 The gist is that sometime in the not quantified future, America’s CPS system gets an overhaul。 Frida, who left her child alone for Ohhhhhhyyy boy。 Where do I start with this wild ride? Y’all。 Points for creativity and dystopia right off the bat。Listen, this is not a happy read, and can be painful at times。 I can only imagine how much more difficult if you have children。 However, I will think about this book for the rest of my life。 I’m glad to have read it。 … I just never want to read it again。 The gist is that sometime in the not quantified future, America’s CPS system gets an overhaul。 Frida, who left her child alone for two hours after what she called “a bad day,” is one of the guinea pigs of the new system。And it’s wild。 She’s sent to a school where they are taught to mother。 I don’t want to give too much away, but the method is not what I expected, and wholly disturbing and fascinating。 There are a LOT of layers to read into this。 The role of mothers in society, gender norms, race, wealth disparity, and so much more。 The patriarchy has ruled supreme, and in this misogynistic social order, Frida must prove herself worthy of her own child。 It’s not a perfect five for me though。 A lot of the novel felt very monotone and had some definite slow parts。 There’s a lot of overly and unnecessary descriptive paragraphs and small tidbits I honestly started to gloss over about halfway through。Not everyone will like this book。 I’ve never seen so many mixed reactions to something。 It’s one everyone will take something different away, and that’s ok! Probably a very, very good book club discussion pick for that reason。 Also, her ex husbands name is Gust。 Gust? Really? I found myself saying Gus in my head。 It’s the whole It Ends With Us Ryle name situation that automatically takes me away from the narrative。 。。。more

Lisa

I was infuriated and then devastated to the point of tears by this novel。 It might destroy parents, especially parents of toddlers。

Lisette Ramos

What a morbid read based on a dark reality but not so far off from reality as the world demands so much from mothers。

Reagan Kapasi

Felt like poor man’s handmaid’s tale, did not enjoy the audiobook version。

Pamela Horton

This book gave me anxiety!!